For so many couples who are expecting the idea of introducing a baby to their dog can make them feel apprehensive, but it's understandable as there is so much to consider and no one really knows what to expect. Fortunately the introduction doesn't have to be as problematic and stressful as you may be thinking, our dogs are very in tune with us and probably can sense that something is up. We have an eleven year old Beagle who we adore and you could say to some extent that he was our first 'baby'. But being our first 'baby' he became a spoiled one who loves to getting up on the sofa, climbing on our bed and the cheeky bugger loves sitting in the window sill when we leave the house. But I knew that as soon as I found out I was pregnant we couldn't let him behave like this- we had our work cut of for us!
I really didn't have a clue where to start so I did some research and I couldn't actually believe some of the awful and misguided information that was out there. I even read one article that said that it would be a good idea to teach our dog to expect to miss a meal every so often. I wasn't too sure if that was supposed to be a tongue-in-cheek piece of advice. My dog is and will always be a part of my family and I want him to feel loved and valued as much as everyone else in the family even when we found out that we were expecting. So if you're in the same boat as use and want a happy and healthy environment for your new baby here are some tips that worked really well for us.
The first thing that all pet owners need to remember is never under any circumstances leave your pet and baby unattended! No matter how well you think you may know your pet, you will always have to keep a watchful eye. But we had further concerns about our dog as he was eleven years old, and it's something that is a priority for us and will continue to be for the rest of his life, it's important to recognise his feelings as well as everyone else.
BEFORE THE BABY COMES (There is lots to do)
Our first task was to define the NO GO zones in our home so that once the baby arrived he would already be used to them. So there was no more getting up on the sofa, or the window sill and having limited time in the front room. Think about what it will be like when you have your dog and baby in the same room? Try and define a clear route out of the room, even if this is keeping the doors open so if your dog was to ever become uncomfortable or just wants some down time they are able to do so. We created a space that was just for him in our utility room where he had a bed, a crate, food and water so he could relax. We had to remember he was an old man and likes to sleep.
Now that you are expecting a little one there really is no better time to strengthen your dogs obedience training and their understanding of basic house rules. This was something that we worked with our dog for a few months because we had become quite relaxed with his training. But it didn't take him long to get familiar with the training along with a daily walk which is really the best thing anyone can do for their dog as it calms them, keeps them happy and is great for their health. It would be a good idea to vary the times of their daily walks and who ventures out with them as they need to be comfortable with everyone.
Soon enough your dog will have lots of new sights, sounds and smells around them and by gradually leaving baby items around the home will help the get use to them. It is best to let them investigate and if they do happen to pick anything up immediately redirect their attention to their own toys - you don't want your dog to think that it is acceptable to pick up the babys belongings.
FIRST MEETING
It is crucial that you stay calm and relaxed because if you seem nervous or jumpy your dog will soon pick up on your feelings and they may become nervous too, perhaps thinking that bundle in your arms is something to worry about. Always praise and reward your dog for their good positive behaviour around your baby.
DAILY LIFE WITH THE BABY
Even though our time with our 'first baby' was limited, we always made sure that we made time for him everyday. I think that it is so important to make time for your dog so that they will realise that even though the pack has a new member, he is still loved. Introducing a new member of family to a dog is not as easy transition for most and it can take a lot of time and preparation. But there are some cases where a dog may avoid the baby all together and unfortunately you have to see this as a red flag and you need think about re-homing your beloved pet. It will be heart breaking for your family but some pets can not adjust to their new lives.
*DISCLAIMER*
I do have to make a disclaimer now and say that I am in no way a professional and any information that I have included is all based on what worked with us when preparing our dog for a baby. If you are in anyway having trouble with your dog it is always best to seek professional advice or enrol in classes