tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4207176078599945299.post1294897734289098821..comments2024-03-28T07:20:50.034+00:00Comments on Mimi Rose and Me: Is Performance Parenting A Thing?Mimiroseandmehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10898204592837184098noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4207176078599945299.post-3347834629342869762017-12-09T10:11:12.885+00:002017-12-09T10:11:12.885+00:00I've never heard of this before but I don'...I've never heard of this before but I don't think I'm guilty...I hope not anyway! #KCACOLS Crummy Mummyhttp://www.crummymummy.co.uknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4207176078599945299.post-31011084354184350562017-12-07T20:57:53.784+00:002017-12-07T20:57:53.784+00:00I’ve never heard of this term before but I do thin...I’ve never heard of this term before but I do think we’ve all been guilty of it! It’s ok to parent differently in front of people and at home. I think it’s only natural and we shouldn’t feel guilty! #KCACOLSMariahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03964407829009914058noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4207176078599945299.post-28891864123233021952017-12-02T12:48:42.022+00:002017-12-02T12:48:42.022+00:00I'm not a parent or anything but I think it...I'm not a parent or anything but I think it's so hard to not compare children with the development stages even though it's not particularly the parents fault. Children learn, grow and develop at their own paces whilst some may be slower that others that's not a bad thing :) xx<br /><br />Yasmina | <a href="http://julyjournal.com" rel="nofollow">The July Journal</a>Yasmina Magdyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03620002747709990468noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4207176078599945299.post-44815754216211647052017-11-30T21:46:20.148+00:002017-11-30T21:46:20.148+00:00I never knew this was a thing either although I di...I never knew this was a thing either although I did recognise many people I know in your description of it! #kcacolsLaura Dovehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03268137000242101428noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4207176078599945299.post-24736190026264805642017-11-30T17:17:35.103+00:002017-11-30T17:17:35.103+00:00I know quite a few people like this. Judgement fro...I know quite a few people like this. Judgement from other people about my parenting has been so detrimental to my mental health so now I've gone the other way & given up caring about what anyone thinks. As long as my daughter is happy then thats all that matters xxCarolinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04591166256830968181noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4207176078599945299.post-27224440666617929792017-11-30T11:14:02.017+00:002017-11-30T11:14:02.017+00:00My son has special needs so I've never felt li...My son has special needs so I've never felt like I had to performance parent in a way to showcase his abilities, more so to prove a point - if that makes sense. But I've hated myself for it, so now I don't bother! xLady Writeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15086046789268578259noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4207176078599945299.post-29208187902519733382017-11-29T18:23:07.112+00:002017-11-29T18:23:07.112+00:00I had never heard of this term before,but have def...I had never heard of this term before,but have definitely seen a few performance parenters. Prettiful Bloghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06398815808529471498noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4207176078599945299.post-45103285563880960312017-11-29T14:02:35.954+00:002017-11-29T14:02:35.954+00:00I'm not a parent myself (3 weeks to go!) and I...I'm not a parent myself (3 weeks to go!) and I've certainly seen/heard other parents doing this out in public! I never knew there was a term for it though! I guess we'll all secretly 'worried' about being judged about everyone in the world that we 'act' like the perfect parent when eyes and ears are on us! Although honestly we really shouldn't need that added pressure of parenthood, it's already tough enough!<br />Much love, Caitylis x x Caitylishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05532101796328969135noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4207176078599945299.post-7099120450704348392017-11-28T22:11:33.422+00:002017-11-28T22:11:33.422+00:00I did't know there was a proper term for this ...I did't know there was a proper term for this until I read your post but I've definitely been guilty of this in the past. In some ways it's better for me as it makes me a less shouty mum!! #KCACOLSLaura - Mummy Laurettahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07141397419038132675noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4207176078599945299.post-32682586560720734162017-11-28T21:53:36.367+00:002017-11-28T21:53:36.367+00:00I never knew it was a thing but I guess I have don...I never knew it was a thing but I guess I have done this from time to time. Mind you these days just getting the three kids to walk in the same direction round the supermarket is a miracle! #KCACOLSAlong Came Poppyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02834492915449489292noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4207176078599945299.post-72232387494895354402017-11-27T09:56:09.114+00:002017-11-27T09:56:09.114+00:00I think we are all very guilty of doing this - I d...I think we are all very guilty of doing this - I do it regularly. Su #KCACOLSSuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18229774062983762988noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4207176078599945299.post-7250380418236544712017-11-27T08:28:51.962+00:002017-11-27T08:28:51.962+00:00Wow, just learned something and I love that! I hav...Wow, just learned something and I love that! I have definitely witnessed this, and of course, have been a bit guilty of it too! Thanks for this awareness. Raising happy and empathetic people is hard work! TY! #kcacols xoxoLisa Pomerantzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15508476122467360712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4207176078599945299.post-46879000655196100342017-11-26T20:29:23.675+00:002017-11-26T20:29:23.675+00:00I have to say that I had never heard this term bef...I have to say that I had never heard this term before. There is so much labeling going on now with parenting. Why can't we just "parent" without being told we are doing something else. There is far too much judgement in the world today. Rant over lol.<br />#KCACOLSalidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12423249105595356325noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4207176078599945299.post-88159790750656851352017-11-26T10:34:01.129+00:002017-11-26T10:34:01.129+00:00I must say I had been guilty of this in the past w...I must say I had been guilty of this in the past with my firstborn. Then I realized I really didn't need anyone's approval and every child is different. Like Rachel, I've learnt to accept my kids the just the way they are. Great post, BTW!<br /><br />#KCACOLSVeronica Leehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14411581380408080378noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4207176078599945299.post-73351422642986410482017-11-25T22:32:58.747+00:002017-11-25T22:32:58.747+00:00I have definitely done a bit of this in the past! ...I have definitely done a bit of this in the past! My second son has multiple disabilities though so I now celebrate a whole new range of things which others might not see. #KCACOLSRachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06467953418264100545noreply@blogger.com